Wednesday, January 30, 2008

Its About Time



In 1999 a dentist told me I had 4 wisdom teeth that needed to come out. Well, here it is 2008 and they are still in there. Between pregnancy(s), moving, and other medical issues no dentist wanted to touch them. But that all changes on Friday (as long as I don't chicken out). Here in Misawa, you only get to go to the dentist once a year (during the service member's birth month). After several cancellations and a lot of confusion, I was able to see the dentist the first week of January. I was told then that, yes, the teeth very much needed to come out but it would probably be March when the surgeon had an appointment for me. They, the wisdom teeth (actually just one of them) have been giving me problems for about 2 years now but about 4 days before we left Texas to come to Japan, they very much started to hurt. I wasn't too happy about being told I would have to wait a few months to get them out but there isn't much you can do about it here. Well......they, the dental clinic, called today at about 3:30 and told me, "Oh, Mrs. Ray, we need you to be here at 7:15 on Friday and don't forget that your husband has to stay in the clinic waiting area until the surgery is done." Uhhh? I guess they had a cancellation last minute. I would be beyond happy but the timing kind of stinks. We had a blizzard last week so they canceled all college classes that day. The make up day for it is this Friday. Brandon is going to have to take the morning off to go sit in the clinic during the surgery (they make the spouse stay there just in case something goes wrong) and then go back to work after lunch. He will get off around 3 and then have to be at school by 4. So...Joey is going to a sitter in the morning during my surgery and now we are looking for a sitter for me while Brandon is in school (I think I will be fine on the drugs but everyone seems to think someone needs to be here with us just in case) until 10:00. Good thing we have a Wii. At least they can have a little fun while they "babysit". Joey is also having his birthday party on Saturday afternoon. Not too sure how much help I am going to be in setting up for it but I guess it won't matter much.


Oh, this picture is Joey trying to talk daddy into letting him sleep in his sleeping bag in the toy room. Daddy is just so mean...How can you say no to such a sweet little boy.

Mr. Soapy Returns

I think the television is going to make me go crazy. Lie actually out of my mind. Here in Misawa, we do not get to watch normal commercials. There is no 30 second spot advertising for the new 99 cent menu at McDonald's or how you can save money by switching to Geico. Nope, here at Misawa (and I guess all overseas military bases) you get AFN commercials. It wouldn't be so bad if they didn't show the same 10 over and over again. They break them up a bit by showing an occasional "What State Is This" one but for the most part this is all we see. I was trying to describe the Mr.Soapy ones to my mom and decided that I should just see if it was on youtube because there was no way I would be able to do it justice over the phone. Here are the links to the 2 AFN Misawa Commercial you just have to see!

Mr. Soapy Commercial
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oBWWotAdp80&NR=1
Mr. Soapy Returns
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h_XyWsMWkTU

Yes, these are very real commercials that we watch over and over every day! I never thought I would miss real commercials, we always would change the channel during them, now I would love to see a commercial about the latest over the counter heart burn medicine or how to stop dead spots in your grass.

What brought this subject of TV commercials up? Well, the Super Bowl is coming up and I hate football. The only thing that has ever made football bearable was the funny commercials. I even went into labor with Joey during the Super Bowl while watching the commercials. They are having this big Super Bowl party at the enlisted club with babysitting, food and fun prizes. It starts at like 6am and they make a big deal out it all. It just won't be the same without the commercials!

Below are a few links to some other AFN commercials I found on YouTube. If you have time, take a look. I'm hoping someone might feel bad for us and record a tape of nothing but good old American commercials and send them to us. Just kidding, well, maybe.

*(If you have time for only one....you JUST HAVE to watch the Don't Pass Gas one)

*Don't Pass Gas Grandpa
http://youtube.com/watch?v=connRUHZ8r4


Hercules Power of Attorney
http://youtube.com/watch?v=mghxZzWVO7A
Family Housing
http://youtube.com/watch?v=YSEUOQSIpfc
Communicate with your Spouse while deployed
http://youtube.com/watch?v=LemcePDZSxk
Bird Flu Commercial
http://youtube.com/watch?v=4EyZ6z9dTQg
Baaaaam, I'm a styrofoam cup, yo!
http://youtube.com/watch?v=SpOb_qSggGE
Misawa Safety Spot
http://youtube.com/watch?v=VU4hhHcgyT4
Chicken Knows Best
http://youtube.com/watch?v=_fwnPKOYQEY

Wednesday, January 23, 2008

I Found WalMart!!!! (Well, kind of)

Today I decided to go to the 100 Yen store and pick up a few things. I have yet to venture outside the main gates of the base on my own without getting lost so this trip was a big deal for me. We are expecting a blizzard tonight and tomorrow. Between 5 tonight and 6 in the morning we are going to have 8 to 12 inches of snow! So....Joey and I get in the van for one quick trip out in town before the weather gets bad.
We had been told that there was no WalMart here in Misawa and the one that was close to us was down past Tokyo (only a 9 hour drive). I love WalMart. I miss WalMart. Well....WalMart (like the cooperation) bought a local Japanese chain of stores called Sanwado. On our way to the 100 Yen store, we pass Sanwado so I pulled into the parking lot to see. Then reality hit me. I'm in Japan. Sanwado was nothing like WalMart. They sell small appliances, working boots, 2x4's, and gardening stuff. They do have a small section of "bulk" items like rice but I don't need that much! I walked back out to the van a little sad (well more like skated, the parking lots are solid sheets of ice out in town). Joey and I made our way to the 100 Yen store and picked up the few goodies we needed and then were going to drive back to base.
Did I tell you all I can't seem to go anywhere without getting lost? Well, we did it again. Somehow I ended up on the other side of town near the train station and our church. It turned out great though. A friend had told me she goes to a local market in this area to buy apples. The apples here on base are WAY TOO EXPENSIVE! You pay about $1.30 an apple. These are not the huge apples, just the little ones about the size Joey wants. This little market sells apples by the crate for about $12.00 my friend told me. I never could seem to find it but today while I was trying to get unlost, I found myself in front of a store with crates of apples sitting on the sidewalk. After about another 15 minutes of trying to find a place to park (the small stores have no parking, you are supposed to just pull up on the sidewalk) Joey and I went in. We were able to get this big box of apples for only $12.00! There were at least 40 apples in there! The man wanted to be sure I was happy with the type of apple Joey picked out (they had all sorts of apples) so he cut a slice out of one for me to eat. It was about the best apple I have ever had! It was cold and crisp and juicy! Joey also bought two bags of the little Japanese oranges. They have a name, I just don't know what it is. They are yummy too.
As the man was packing my apples into my van, I remembered, "Wait, I'm lost!" I looked at the man with what have been a very puzzled look and without me having to say a thing he asked, "Misawa Base? Hi! I show you." Then he climbed into the van. Um, ok. I thought maybe he was just going to show me on my navigation system (which would have done me no good, its all in Japanese) but know he indicated that I should drive. The shop turned out to be only about 1km away from White Pole Road (the one way road that goes directly in front of the base) so he directed me (by pointing) there and then said his goodbyes. Its rather rude here in Japan to offer to tip someone for their services so we thanked him, "Domo" and Joey gave him a spider man sticker.
Guess getting lost in Japan isn't so bad after all.

Thursday, January 17, 2008

There's no place like home...There's no place like home...

I seemed to have lost my ruby slippers. I looked under the bed, in the bottom of every closet and even in the warming drawer under the oven. I just can't find them. I thought maybe my pink slippers Joey got me for Christmas might work but they didn't. I tried clicking my heals together three times and nothing. Maybe its because they are too soft and don't make the click? I closed my eyes, clicked my heals together three times and repeated, "There's no place like home". I'm not sure what I expected, a big wosh of air as I travel at the speed of light back to Texas? Maybe I imagined it to be like the transporter on the Starship Enterprise. My pink squish slippers would dematerialize my energy pattern and "beam" me into my parents living room. When I opened my eyes what did I find? No pine trees, no Blue Bell ice cream, no big Texas truck....just more snow. Oh there is no place like home....

Ok, I'm done with my whining. If you couldn't tell, I'm a bit home sick. A couple of things today just made it worse.

A friend of mine emailed me this afternoon to ask if I could watch her son while she goes to the airport tomorrow to pick up her grandparents who are flying in for a visit from the states.
Most of you know that my grandfather has been in the hospital fighting the West Nile virus since August. Its been hard for me not being able to get updates as often as I could when I was still in the states. In fact, while I was in the states, I could drive down to the hospital myself and check on him whenever I wanted. I wish that there was something I could do to help. I know there wasn't much I was able to do while I was there but even something little like rubbing his feet with lotion made me feel like I was doing something. Its hard knowing there is so much history around my area and around Japan that PawPaw would love to go and visit but he probably won't be able to, at least during our tour here in Misawa. With the whole election thing going on, I miss being able to call pick on PawPaw and his being a democrat and my being a republican. At a church Christmas party for the ladies, someone asked us if we could have just one thing for Christmas, what would it be. One sister said she would wish for a clean house. Another wished for her husband to be advanced in rank this next year. While the question went around the circle I thought of all the things I could wish for. My house to sell, that my body will continue to heal or that our family would continue to grow closer together now that Brandon is home. But no, while I wish that those would all come true, if I was given only one wish, I would wish for my grandfather to be well again.

Today I also had to run over to the Health and Wellness Center to get the results from some recent blood work. It was just the normal stuff we should all have done like cholesterol and such as well as my weekly check on my clotting times. Some of the numbers were a little confusing. HDL...HDL...Triglycerides...I have no clue what any of those numbers mean. The nurse that gave me the results sheet wasn't able to explain anything to me (nurses can't go over blood work results here, only give you your sheet so you can call and make an appointment with the doctor to talk about the numbers). When I got home, the first thing I did was reach for the phone to call my mom and ask her what the heck it all meant. Just before I hit "talk", I remembered it would be only 1 in the morning back in Texas and I doubt mom would want me calling then just to talk about my cholesterol. I miss being able to simply pick up the phone as soon as I leave a medical appointment and call mom to find out what everything means. I miss being able to just pick up the phone and call her for silly things like when Joey says something cute. Its nice now that she has a computer and email but it just isn't the same. I just miss my family back in the states so very much and it just stinks that there is such a big time difference here.

Okay...done with whining. Not much else is going on here in Misawa. I was able to go see a movie tonight at the theater here on base. It was the new National Treasure one. I very much enjoyed it! Going to a movie here on base is a bit different. Parents bring their kids of all ages to the move with them (they don't let the parents bring kids under 16 to rated R movies). Sitting behind me tonight was a family with two children younger than Joey. Great. I just knew this was going to not be a good thing. It was actually great. I didn't hear a peep out of them! I had more issues with the two grown men sitting a few rows in front of me that wouldn't stop talking for half the movie. I don't think I will be bringing Joey to any movies not rated G here even though it seems to be a normal thing for everyone else but it was nice to see that the kids in the theater kept quiet or their parents quickly took them out. Another thing that is a bit different at a military movie theater is the national anthem. Before the movie begins, just after they dim the lights, everyone stands for the national anthem. Everyone. Its a neat thing.

Joey is getting pretty good with his Donky Kong game on the Wii. He laughed at me because I stink at it!

That's about it! We sure miss you all very much. Thanks for letting me whine!

Wednesday, January 16, 2008

Up Way Too Late

So, its 12:26 in the morning and I am still up. Why you may ask? Well, two reasons.

First, a sweet little boy I know, no name will be given, has changed his mind for the 10th time on what kind of party he wants to have for his birthday. First he wanted "Howdy Town", a party based some DVD he got in Texas that uses cowboys and talking ponies to teach manors and responsibility. Great I thought. A cowboy party, that is something I know something about. Then it changed. Next he wanted a Care Bear Party. Okay, that I might have a bit more trouble with but after some searching online, I found ways to have a fun Care Bear party. Thank goodness I haven't bought the plates yet. Now my sweet little boy (I must keep repeating sweet to remind myself just how much I love him) wants a Planet Heroes Party. So...now I am looking for ideas on a party based on the Solar System. I know a lot of you are probably thinking, "She is nuts! Its a 5 year-old's birthday party. Go with one theme and tell him its too late to change his mind." Well, the point of no return on what he wants the theme to be will be Wednesday (um..I think that is today). So, we might end up with a cowboy astronauts visit Care-A-Lot land party, those pictures would be interesting.

The other reason I am up so late is because smart me decided to cook a turkey (it had been thawing in the fridge for a few days) at 6:30. Smart. I have had to stay up to wait for it to cook, cool off, then remove the bones, separate it into the portion I need for the different meals it goes into and then put it away. I should have learned the lesson on not starting a cooking project after 4pm from when I decided to start a batch of bread at 7pm (that was another LONG night).

I guess it is a good thing that my husband is the one that has to get up early in the morning and not me. I don't think I would even hear the alarm. Not that I ever hear it anyways! The building we are in is one of the older ones so your standard American alarm clock does not keep proper time here and the locals don't seem to use the plug in type so we are using Brandon's travel alarm clock. He hasn't overslept yet so I guess he can hear it okay.

Well, the bird should be cooled off by now. Back to the kitchen!

Tuesday, January 15, 2008

Cold Cold Cold

I guess it has been awhile since I posted last on my blog. Things have been going pretty okay here in Misawa. Its cold. I don't like cold. There is lots of snow and I don't like snow. Its cold and it is wet and I wish it would just go away. Don't tell Joey I feel that way though. Everyday he gets very very excited if it is snowing outside and gets upset if the sun dares to peak behind a cloud and threaten to melt away his snow. Last week, on Friday, was my first time to actually have to clean off my car on my own. I have been lucky enough to not need to go anywhere, up to this point, before Brandon had a chance to clear it for me. I had a dentist appointment at 7:25 in the morning (which is way too early to go to the dentist in my opinion) and while Brandon did get up early with me to fix breakfast, he went right back to bed, not out to the car to clear the snow and ice that had grown overnight. And here I thought he loved me. Just kidding. I would have done the same thing. It is taking me awhile to get used to the medical care here in Misawa. I have been lucky in our 7 years of being in the military. For the most part, I have seen only civilian providers and over the past year, prior to coming to Japan, I had Doctor Murillo (the doctor my mother works for). Now that I am having to see only military providers, I realize how lucky I was. Here, too see the doctor for anything, you first have to call and do a phone consult with a nurse who then gives you the referral to the correct doctor (the primary care doctor, not the specialty care provider). It would be nice if the nurse could give you any advice or you could ask if the problem you are having is something you should hold off on coming in for or if you should come in right away. Nope...the nurse simply ask what the symptoms are and decides how urgent they are and then assigns you to a doctor. You then have to call the doctor's appointment line and ask for an appointment. Depending on how the nurse prioritized your case, you may be seen that very afternoon or as far out as 30 days. If you were wanting an appointment to get your child the flu shot, you first have to call the nurse, then go to the doctor who gives you the referral to call and make an appointment to walk across the hall and get the flu shot. Its a big hassle. Oh how I miss civilian care!
Joey is doing pretty good. He is going to a play group on Monday and Friday now and enjoying playing with the other kids. He also recently got a student desk and enjoys being a big boy sitting at his desk to do his work. We were recently told that my parents will be visiting us sometime this summer. Joey didn't quite understand and wakes up every morning thinking today is the day they will arrive. Poor little boy!
My mother recently got her first computer (her very own laptop) and it has been fun talking with her by instant messenger. I think we still need to work on the responding to emails you receive thing but she is getting the hang of it. Joey very much liked seeing her on the web cam and I think she enjoyed seeing how much he has grown.
Brandon is doing pretty okay. He registered for classes today I think with the University of Maryland University College. He is taking a business management class and a writing class. Fun Fun! He hurt his hand a few weeks ago playing "wallieball" (urgh how do you spell that) which is volleyball played half court with the wall. With his hurt hand he hasn't been able to go to the climbing wall.
That is about all that is going on here. We sure miss you all bunches!